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 The Evolution of ARCI Retreat 
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Soma & Soul Retreat

Transformational Journey in Authentic Expression & Embodied Connection

Embodied & Authentic Relating · Contact Improv · Ecstatic Dance· Expressive Movement · Somatics · Vocal Activation · Breathwork · Sauna, Hot Tub, & Saltwater Pool · Nature Immersion · All meals by Private Chef

Do you crave deeper intimacy and expression—with yourself and others?

Want tools to cultivate connection that meet you somatically, emotionally, and energetically?

Yearning to grow, learn, and connect in community with like-valued folks?

Then join us for—

Soma & Soul Retreat: a Celebration of Authenticity, Embodiment, and Soulful Connection.

Relationships are the foundation of our lives.

Soma & Soul Retreat combines some of the most robust, impactful, and potent frameworks for expression and connection out there.

With deep roots in Authentic Relating (AR) and Contact Improv (CI), formally known as ARCI Retreat (2021-2024), Soma & Soul encompasses supportive conscious relating and somatic practices that woven together, deliver a holistic curriculum for full-spectrum intimacy.

Join us for this intimate journey into the heights and depths of what it means to be human together. In service of personal and interpersonal expansion, we’ll learn, practice and play in somatic, emotional, and relational connection.

 

Immerse in Relational & Personal Expansion in Ancient Redwoods:

 

“This combination was really genius. The whole thing together was like psycho-emotional surgery…

It was just masterful.”

At this 6-Day Immersive Retreat

Walk Away With

  • A greater ability to engage in deep, meaningful, soulful conversations with anyone, anytime, anywhere

  • Embodiment of skills to lead any relationship toward greater understanding, deeper connection, holistic intimacy, and meaningful trust

  • Expanded self-awareness and increased connection to self somatically, emotionally, relationally, and soulfully

  • A range of the techniques and practices of Contact Improv and improvised partner dance, such as: CI pathways, weight-sharing, lifts, spirals, falls, Underscore, and more

  • A deeper understanding of the psychology of trust, and how to build this in relationships somatically and emotionally for full-spectrum intimacy

  • The valuable nourishment of platonic touch, relational intimacy, and value-aligned community

  • An unforgettable week immersing in human potential, and from that birthplace, cultivating lasting connections and community

 

What to Expect

Wake up to sprawling forest views. Start the day with an optional vocal activation or forest walk before communal breakfast.

Then surrender to the one-of-a-kind curriculum in Authentic Relating, Embodiment, Contact Improv, freeform expression, and supporting connective and movement practices. We’ll gather for each session in the main house, the on-site dance studio, or the outdoor dance floor under towering Redwoods. Nourish between sessions with deliciously crafted meals from our private in-house chef.

Each evening will conclude with a different activity (ranging from the cozy to the celebratory to the ceremonious to the comedic). Additionally, you’re free to punctuate your week with nature walks, spa moments, integration, and down-time.

 
 

What’s Included

  • All meals — chef-prepared, nourishing, and vegetarian

  • 5 nights of accommodation — options vary by venue though include private rooms, shared rooms, or camping

  • Bespoke curriculum across 2 half days + 4 full days, featuring:

    • Connection: Authentic Relating and Embodied Relating

    • Movement: Contact Improv, Authentic Movement, movement theory, and Ecstatic Dance

    • Nervous System support: Somatics, Breathwork, and group rituals

    • Expression: Vocal Activation, Song Circles, and other creative opportunities

  • Nature immersion — explorations into the surrounding land

  • Evening experiences — from cozy, celebratory, ceremonial, to comedic

  • Access to venue amenities — such as saltwater pools, hot tubs, or saunas (varies by location)

  • Private cohort chat for rideshares, gatherings, and ongoing connection

  • and more magic we can’t wait to share

What’s Not Included

  • Transportation to and from the venue (we’ll help coordinate carpools)

  • Camping gear — if camping is available, tents and bedding may be included depending on the venue

Accommodations Vary by Venue

2025 location and accommodation details coming soon!

Options include:

  • Private rooms

  • Shared rooms

  • Glamping-style tents

Join us in the Redwoods:

I grew so much, experienced more joy and connection than I thought possible in a week, and made life long friends.

This retreat was an experience that I will cherish for the rest of my life.

The fusion that makes Soma & Soul so potent—and so transformative:

Why we weave relational and embodiment practices together

Authentic Relating (AR) and conscious connection lenses invite practices that enable us to engage in deep, meaningful, soulful connection with anyone, anytime, anywhere. In learning the principles of conscious connection through Authentic Relating and Somatics, we arrive at Embodied Relating: a whole-self approach to relating.

Through this work, we move beyond unconscious habits and step into empowered, integrated ways of being.

Through Embodied Relating practices:

  • We gather the capacity and skill for full self-expression.

  • We access the wisdom of the body for real-time knowledge, resource, and true intimacy.

  • We welcome more parts of ourselves and in turn welcome more each other and the world.

  • We enable ourselves to practice courageous vulnerability, growing beyond our comfort zone as we dance along our Tender Edge.

  • We learn the potency of deep listening and empathy, developing the ability to truly Be With and meet people at their core.

  • We increase our access to present moment awareness and relational attunement.

How do movement and dance enrich this experience?

Movement and dance unlock the wisdom of the body, providing a powerful avenue for whole-self access and authentic expression that transcends words, fostering deeper connection to self and others.

While going beyond, this retreat is largely rooted in Contact Improv (CI), which is is an open source improvisational partner dance developing internationally over the past 50+ years and is now a basis for dance communities worldwide. CI is silent but social, traditionally practiced without any talking or music. While improvisational, CI has a robust language of “pathways” from which to creatively combine for ultimate freedom and flow in connection with others.

Through these movement practices:

  • We learn the trust and artistry of moving in connection.

  • We develop embodied listening and embodied presence.

  • We find strength and possibility in counterbalance and shared movement.

  • We celebrate the potential of the human body and our bodies' combinations.

  • We learn the mechanics of our forms, and how to creatively express somatically for ourselves and in connection to others.

  • We increase our access to present moment awareness and relational attunement.

  • We unfurl the core humanness and magic of creative, playful connection that goes beyond words.

ENTER: the Soma & Soul Experience

As we practice together in these ways, we open ourselves to the potential of deeper trust, more beauty and creativity, increased fulfillment in connection, and rewarding relationships to ourselves and others as we expand into personal and relational potential.

Amazing, Right?

“This was a unique, magical, holistic movement and relating experience unlike anything I’ve ever experienced…

I can say with 100% confidence that I experienced a profound shift in my connection to myself.”

Last Year’s Team

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  • CO-FOUNDER | ORGANIZER | LEAD & AUTHENTIC RELATING FACILITATOR

    Ash Witham (she/they) is a dancer, creator, and facilitator. She has danced Contact Improv and trained in various conscious connection and mindful relating modalities around the globe over the past decade. With a passion for wholeness and full-spectrum intimacy, Ash utilizes an interdisciplinary approach to weave wisdom from shadow work, Authentic Relating, attachment theory, somatics and embodiment—to help empower you to create the life and relationships you most desire.

    Ash is a course leader at Authentic Relating Training (ART) International and a certified coach through The Relateful Company. She has studied Embodied Transformation, and Somatics, Trauma, and Resilience with the Strozzi Institute, and is certified in Integrated Somatic Trauma Therapy through The Embody Lab.

    She is also the co-founder of Shadow Academy (established Sept. 2021) an integrative course in shadow work, as well as the co-founder of ARCI Retreat (established May 2022)—the first retreat designed around the expansive intersection of Authentic Relating and Contact Improv. Thriving in experience design and creative collaboration, Ash is dedicated to innovating containers for personal and interpersonal transformation.
    Ashwitham.com // @alchemy.with.ash

  • CONTACT IMPROV FACILITATOR

    Hana Nubia Rakhshani (she/her) is a dancer, movement artist, and activist, specializing in contact improvisation, experiential anatomy, somatics and expressive arts therapy. Growing up in India, Her journey into dance began with seven years of Bharatantyam, a traditional temple dance form. Since then, Hana has been immersed in yoga study for 16 years, receiving her teachers certification in 2013. Coming from a Persian and Nicaraguan background, Hana has been passionate about cultures, graduating with a degree in culture anthropology. Her ethnographic thesis looked at contact improvisation as a cultural paradigm. To her, dance is a space where culture, ritual and symbology can blend with creative expression and therapeutic potential.

    Since 2016, Hana has been studying contact improvisation, body-mind centering, the axis syllabus, and partner acrobatics. Her main focus has been on interconnecting movement and expression on the dance floor with movement and expression through everyday life. Hana has been teaching as well as creating community spaces for learning and jamming in Asheville, NC, (USA) since 2018. To Hana, movement and presence are the fertile ground for spirituality as well as revolution. Embodiment being the starting place to connect with health and wellness on a psycho-somatic and spiritual level. Her style of teaching blends metaphor, visual imagery, anatomy, technique and sensation based practice. @thesensingbody

  • HOST & VENUE STEWARD | VOCAL ACTIVATOR | MUSICIAN

    Shanna Gilfix (she/her) is a singer-songwriter, collaborative recording artist, and soundbath guide, gifted with a silky, golden, honey-like voice. Dedicated to inspiring vocal empowerment, she specializes in guiding individuals to activate their voice through playful exercises that serve as joyful reminders of a birthright – the innate ability to use one's voice in song. As the vocal activation guide for ARCI Retreat in 2023, Shanna's magic resonated deeply with participants, fostering a transformative journey of self-discovery and vocal expression.

    Shanna is also the visionary creator behind the Lion's Den Vocal Activation event, an immersive experience designed to unleash the full potential of participants' voices. With a passion for helping others embrace the authenticity of their vocal selves, Shanna continues to be a catalyst for empowering voices and looks forward to bringing her enchanting expertise to ARCI Retreat: Soma & Soul Edition. @shannagilfix.

  • CO-ORGANIZER

    Sophia Morgan (she/they) is a mover and feeler, dancing for over twenty years across Latin partner dances, contact improv, house, choreography, and ballet. A passionate advocate for accessibility and disability rights, LGBTQ+ inclusion, and racial justice, they have led digital accessibility programs with an intersectional focus for over five years, empowering people with disabilities with equal access in employment, e-commerce, and transportation.

    Sophia believes in the transformative and healing power of authentic relating at the nexus of somatic embodiment, interpersonal connection, and systemic contexts. Certified in Somatic Attachment Therapy through The Embody Lab, and Authentic Relating Level 3 Leadership through Authentic Relating Training International (Feb 2024), Sophia is committed to bringing possibility to every interaction through presence and curiosity, and connection.

  • CHEF

    Aleya Wylde (she/they) “Within the confines of my kitchen, I weave a seductive tapestry of love, care, and attention to create meals that tantalize the senses and nourish the very essence of your being. Each dish is a symphony of flavors meticulously crafted to elevate your mind, invigorate your body, and awaken your spirit to new heights of pleasure.

    As an artist of sustenance and a connoisseur of all things sensual, I pour my passion into every morsel, infusing them with a bespoke touch tailored to your individual essence. In 2018 I started my dance as a private chef for families and individuals, I have danced through a myriad of cuisines – from the vibrant realms of vegetarian cuisine to the primal allure of paleo, and the intricate wisdom of Ayurvedic traditions.

    When not in the kitchen, I'm curating connective experiences as an EroSoma facilitator and Professional Sensual Domme- beckoning individuals and couples into presences, eros and aliveness.” @aleyawylde

FAQ

  • The retreat is intentionally designed to blend connection, embodiment, and nervous system support.

    Our days are shaped by a mix of:

    • Authentic Relating & Embodied Relating

    • Contact Improv, Authentic Movement, Ecstatic Dance, and other movement practices

    • Song Circles and Vocal Activation

    • Breathwork, meditation, and group rituals

    If we had to break it down, the retreat is roughly:

    • ⅓ Relational and connective practices

    • ⅓ Movement and embodiment

    • ⅓ Expressive (vocal activation) and integrative (soundbath, comedy night, etc.)

    This is truly a full-body, full-heart journey—and the magic happens in how it all weaves together.

  • A Rhythm Designed for Depth, Play, and Integration

    Each day is carefully designed to balance deep relational work, embodied movement, expressive practice, and rest.

    You’ll move between immersive sessions, nourishing meals, open time in nature, and soulful or playful evenings—all held in a steady, spacious rhythm to support your unfolding experience.

    EXAMPLE SCHEDULE
    Exact timing subject to change each year:

    Arrival Day
    2:30 - 4:00: Arrivals + Settling Time
    4:00 - 6:30: Opening Session
    6:30 - 8:00: Dinner
    8:00 - 9:30 Evening Activity

    Day 2-5
    8:00 - 9:00: Vocal Activation
    9:00 - 10:15: Breakfast
    10:15 - 1:00: Morning Session
    1:00 - 3:30: Lunch & Daily Break
    3:30 - 6:30: Afternoon Session
    6:30 - 8:00: Dinner
    8:00 - 9:30 Evening Activity

    Departure Day
    8:00 - 9:00: Vocal Activation
    9:00 - 10:15: Breakfast
    10:15 - 1:00: Closing Session
    1:00 - 3:00: Final Lunch + Departures

  • Soma & Soul is for seekers, feelers, and curious humans who want to live—and relate—more fully.

    It’s especially resonant for folks who:

    • Are drawn to embodiment, presence, and aliveness

    • Crave depth in community, not just connection

    • Are LGBTQ+, BIPOC, neurodivergent, or otherwise tired of contorting to belong

    • Want to feel at home in their body, voice, and truth

    You do not need experience with movement or Authentic Relating to attend—just a willingness to be real.

  • Great question—we’ve got you.

    Because our application process includes key questions about movement experience, we’ll have a clear sense of the group’s range before the retreat begins.

    Our Movement Facilitator will design sessions with this in mind—meeting you exactly where you are and creating an experience that supports both newcomers and seasoned movers alike. Expect a mix of foundational guidance, advanced invitations, and spaciousness for exploration—no matter your level.

  • Absolutely.

    We’ve had seasoned practitioners and total newcomers alike say this retreat was the most profound Authentic Relating experience they’ve ever had.

    As one participant shared:
    “This Retreat was a life-changing experience for me. I had been to other Authentic Relating events before, but this one was by far the most profound, healing, and meaningful—thanks to the people who were there, the skillful facilitation, the pairing with Contact Improv, and the time spent in nature.”

    During the application process, we ask about your AR experience level. This helps us design a shared language and thoughtful arc that meets the group where they are.

    Whether you're a first-timer or a seasoned relater, we promise:
    You’ve never experienced Authentic Relating quite like this.

  • Offered every morning before breakfast, these sessions are an invitation to connect with the essence of your voice in a playful, welcoming, and liberating space.

    Led by experienced facilitators, we’ll explore a range of vocal practices—from warmups and harmonies to improvisational group singing, vocal play, and Circle Songs.

    You’ll be guided to let go of inhibition, tap into your authentic sound, and experience the power of singing in community. Whether it’s through creative sounding, layered rhythms, or co-creation, these sessions help unlock the voice as a channel of self-expression and collective connection.

  • Nature isn’t just the backdrop—it’s an active part of the retreat.

    We choose venues intentionally immersed in the natural world because we see nature as a powerful ally in grounding, integration, and transformation.

    Here’s how you’ll connect with the land:

    • Daily free time to rest, wander, or soak in the surrounding environment

    • Access to trails or natural spaces for solo or shared exploration

    • Facilitated moments of nature connection and grounding woven throughout the week

    • Movement sessions held in both indoor and open-air spaces, often with expansive views or direct connection to the elements

    Whether it’s lying on the earth, dancing beneath the sky, or walking in quiet reflection—nature will meet you exactly where you are.

  • Yes! All meals are vegetarian and prepared by our private on-site chef.

    You’ll be asked about dietary restrictions in your application, and we’ll do our best to accommodate them. That said, we encourage you to bring any specific additions or supplements you need to feel fully supported.

  • Yes!
    We help organize carpools to support wherever our attendees are coming from.

    Once your application is accepted and your deposit is paid, we’ll send out details to help you self-organize rides with other attendees. The Soma & Soul team will support the process to make coordinating smooth and accessible.

  • Yes. While the schedule is full and immersive, integration and rest are essential parts of the design.

    There are spacious breaks each day to nap, journal, socialize, enjoy the spa and grounds, or simply be.

    And remember: everything is optional. You’re encouraged to honor your own rhythm.

  • Yes. We offer a limited number of financial assistance spots to make the retreat more accessible.

    You’ll see a section in the application where you can request support and share a bit about your financial context. We review each request with care and allocate support based on need, equity, and the sustainability of the retreat—with particular attention to uplifting BIPOC, LGBTQ+, and other systemically marginalized applicants.

    If you’re in a position to contribute to the Financial Assistance Fund, you’ll have the option to do so when submitting your deposit. Your generosity helps make this experience more accessible for others.

  • We understand that life happens—and we do our best to balance flexibility with care for the container.

    • Cancellations made more than 3 months before the retreat are refundable, minus a $250 admin fee.

    • Cancellations made 1-3 months before the retreat will be reimbursed at 50% of the total ticket price.

    • Cancellations made within 1 month of the retreat are nonrefundable, but your spot can be transferred.

    If you find someone to take your place at least 2 weeks before the retreat—and they’re accepted by the Soma & Soul team—you’ll receive a full refund once their payment is received.

    This policy helps us protect the integrity of the container and honor the energy it takes to plan something this special. Thank you for understanding and supporting the process.

 

Retreat Testimonials

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    Sascha | Ayurvedic Therapist - Los Angeles, Ca

    “This combination was really genius. The whole thing together was like psycho-emotional surgery. I felt like I was on aya for 6 days! It was just masterful—the way this was combined felt so safe despite any lack that I felt exploring certain things personally. The way everything was held and facilitated felt really good.I am so grateful—like major major.

    My entire life is changing now. In a way that's been long hoped… I'm noticing a greater saturation of myself in my own body. And I have internalized a big bag of new tools. This retreat even clicked some things into place for the work that I want to do in the world!”

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    Dan | Therapist & Coach - Boulder, CO

    “This retreat was a wonderful time. The care put into the container was palpable and in service of opening. And the permission, ohhh so much permission to be and feel and open and experience and grow.

    Ash’s facilitation was refined and inclusive and beautiful. I left this experience with new lasting connections, and I feel lucky to have said yes to this unique moment in time!”

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    OlivIa | Actress - Los angeles, CA

    “This retreat was a life changing experience for me. I had been to other Authentic Relating events before but this one was by far the most profound, healing, and meaningful—thanks to the people who were there, the skillful facilitation, the pairing with Contact Improv, and the time spent in Nature.

    The facilitators created such a strong container that allowed for so much vulnerability and deep connection, and the pairing with Contact Improv, which is naturally so regulating and also encourages connection to one's body, brought a beautiful balance of mental and physical engagement. I can't say enough about how beautiful and profound the connection between Contact Improv and Authentic Relating is, with both encouraging and teaching such a strong connection to self and other. 

    And because naturally intense emotions can arise when you are living and relating closely to 20 something people, it was so beautiful and healing to be able to co-regulate through platonic physical touch and dance and connection from 20 something amazing humans, and learn tools to honor self and other in the midst of those emotions.

    I grew so much, experienced more joy and connection than I thought possible in a week, and made life long friends.  It is an experience that I will cherish for the rest of my life.”

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    Daniel | Engineer - Santa Cruz, CA

    “What a life changing retreat—by far my favorite.

    It felt so good to be part of this group. This well-networked, healthy group. I felt more comfortable there from day 1 than any other retreat. And I felt like the best version of myself: I was self-expressed and seen and accepted and appreciated and loved—and I loved myself.

    It was easeful and enjoyable to be present and embodied. The way the space was held from the beginning: humble, respectful, open. Following and honoring what's alive when needed and not always adhering to the schedule. Transparency over hiding. Empowering individuals and the group…

    Most importantly, loving the people there helped me love aspects of myself. The one who is quiet, shy, suspicious. The one who speaks slowly. The one who struggles to take up space. The one who wants connection but doesn't know how to initiate. The one who is lonely. The one who doesn't know how to be vulnerable. The one who is insecure about being a beginner. The one who doesn't smile often, but shines so beautifully when they do smile.

    I loved them all, and learned that all in me is lovable too.”

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    Marie | Dance Teacher & Artist - Los angeles, CA

    “This retreat was a unique, magical, holistic movement and relating experience unlike anything I’ve ever experienced.I came in with CI experience and no AR experience, and instantly felt welcomed. The facilitators created such a generous sharing space, and navigated between vulnerability, joy, laughter, grief, deep feeling, and celebration with grace and consideration for the whole collective. I rejoiced in each dance, and can say with 100% confidence that I experienced a profound shift in my connection to myself, as well as a clarity around the kind of relationships I desire in my life.

    Ash’s facilitation was honest and empathetic, and I felt that they were simultaneously a leader I could depend on and a peer I could relate to. That kind of generous leadership is rare, and Ash has that balanced capability in abundance.”

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    Kevin | Facilitator - Las Vegas, Nevada

    “My experience of this retreat was beautiful and deep. The practices and facilitation offered allowed for a felt sense of connection in the group, and this helped my body to feel relaxed and open, which brought a feeling of belonging. I whole heartedly recommend this experience to anyone who wants to feel more at home and welcome in their body, and I would Love to be immersed in this container again.”

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    Katie | Natural Chef - Sebastopol, CA

    “I attended this retreat at a crucial transition time in my life. I had NO idea what I was getting myself into, but when I signed up, I KNEW I had to be there. A friend at the time mentioned I should look into Authentic Relating, that I was already practicing it on my own. I didn't know what I was practicing was "a thing" until I stumbled upon this retreat. And while I had a dance practice too, I was very new to Contact Improv.

    When I saw the unique combination of of this retreat, I trusted my gut YES and applied immediately. I returned home from the retreat with my heart blasted open, a deepening and thriving relationship with AR & CI, and heartfelt relationships that I continue to tend.”

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    Teri | Actress - Los Angeles, CA

    “This retreat was more than I could’ve ever hoped for. Participating alongside my partner was the cherry on top, and SO valuable to the future of our relationship. It truly solidified our union. Thank you.”

 
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